The Intentional Union

Design the union you want — with clarity, intention, and love.

UnmarriedUnion is a pro-clarity, pro-choice alternative to legal marriage. We help committed partners build a durable relationship framework — without defaulting to a government contract.

Download the Free Clarity Workbook

Not anti‑marriage. Pro‑commitment by design. Educational content only — not legal advice.

Free Clarity Workbook: The 7 Questions

Before you say “I do” — or decide not to — answer the seven conversations that matter most. Includes guidance on how to present the questions and collaborate with care.

  • How to introduce the conversation
  • Ground rules for collaboration
  • 7 questions with reflect & discuss prompts
Get the free PDF Explore the Partnership Pact Kit

Marriage isn’t the only path — and default choices can be costly.

Legal Entanglement

Default laws may assign rights and obligations you never discussed — and are hard to unwind.

Financial Uncertainty

From business exposure to support obligations, “equitable” division isn’t always equitable.

Default Assumptions

“Commitment” and “contract” aren’t synonyms. You can choose a framework that fits your values.

The Partnership Pact Kit

Everything you need to build a life together — without a marriage license. Pro‑commitment, pro‑clarity, and fully customizable.

Cohabitation Agreement

Lawyer‑informed templates covering property, finances, and exit protocols (tailor with local counsel).

Estate & Emergency Tools

Checklists for wills, powers of attorney, and healthcare proxies; beneficiary best‑practices.

Relationship Workbook

Values, roles, conflict navigation, and long‑term vision exercises (the heart of relationship literacy).

Ceremony Blueprint

Design a meaningful commitment ceremony without legal paperwork — vows, rituals, and symbolism.

Breakup Protocol

Clear, compassionate steps if the relationship ends — minimizing harm and confusion.

Ongoing Updates

Optional membership for refresh prompts, Q&As, and expert sessions.

See What’s Inside

Who it’s for

Entrepreneurs & owners
Protect the business you built.
Divorce‑wary partners
Believe in love, prefer clarity.
Modern couples
Committed, not contracted.
LGBTQ+ partners
Design a framework that fits.
High‑clarity planners
Intentional by default.
Blended families
Align rights and roles upfront.

What couples are saying

“We’ve been together 12 years. No marriage. No drama. UnmarriedUnion helped us align everything from finances to parenting.”

Morgan & Leigh
Seattle, WA

“After my divorce, I still believed in love — just not the default contract. This gave us clarity and peace of mind.”

Jason
Austin, TX

FAQ

Is this anti‑marriage?

No. We’re pro‑commitment and pro‑choice. Some couples marry with a prenup; others use our framework instead. The goal is clarity either way.

Is this legally binding?

Parts can be. Cohabitation agreements and estate documents can carry legal weight when properly executed with local counsel. Our materials are educational, not legal advice.

Can this replace a prenup?

It can serve similar functions for unmarried partners. If you plan to marry, talk to an attorney about a prenuptial agreement that reflects your intentions.

What if we’re already married?

You can still use the communication tools, ceremony ideas, and planning checklists — and work with counsel on a postnup if appropriate.

What happens if we break up?

The framework includes a compassionate exit protocol to minimize conflict and ambiguity around property, accounts, and logistics.

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